why I don't post

[Michael Spreeman]

Psych project or not, making one's first post is a bit like being a kid and moving to a new school with all the fear and trepidation of that first day; wondering if you're going to be accepted or assaulted.  With the small ratio of those who post to those who lurk,  my advise for the non-posters is to lock your ego in the closet and go for it; you may find your input scrutinized, but at least you're not going to get beat up at recess. I'm a fairly confindent individual and felt my initial posts  unwelcomed.  But one should consider the possibility that many of the mainstream participants don't have a clue who or what you are with the first few posts and be prepared and open minded for whatever responses may insue, whether seeking advise or offering it.  I was fortunate to have one "welcome to the list" post from my friend Blind Willy whom I had the pleasure of working with in California (thanks, btw, William).  By "sucking it up and hanging in there", I've made several new wonderful friends that I would never have otherwise, and have found the numerous respones to my posts to be quite informative, interesting, and even humorous at times.  Attempt to keep your emotions in check and your responses analytical,  attack and most likely you'll be attacked, approach your initial post like you're a guest in one's home and the odds are in your favor for kind acceptance. Bottom line:   it's well worth the effort,  so ,,, what are you all waiting for?  
 
                Michael Spreeman http://www.spreemanpianoinnovations.com

> From: yardbird at vermontel.net> Subject: Re: why I don't post> Date: Tue, 2 Oct 2007 10:45:56 -0400> To: pianotech at ptg.org> > > On Oct 2, 2007, at 10:30 AM, Ron Nossaman wrote:> >> I was looking for the original "why don't I post" post and > >> couldn't find it. Oh well....> >> > Me either, which makes me wonder if it isn't the next generation > > student thesis project from the University Psych department that > > brought us that very thing four or five years ago. That guy didn't > > have a point of origin either. Interestingly, when I posted his > > name and address on pianotech and e-mailed the university with a > > specific complaint about him, nothing was heard from either after > > that.> > Who remembers the Rev. Peggy Biele of about ten years ago? The best > of the spooks in my 12 years on this list.> > Mr. Bill> > > > > 
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