Bill, At 10:01 AM 11/21/97 -0500, you wrote: > Horace Greeley's is the only comment I'll keep on "horrible example" so >far in that his statement is basically sound advice even though I feel that >he still misses my point. What bothers me is that some people seem to enjoy >("it made my day") gloating over others mistakes. There is nothing to be gained from the kinds of seemingly personal attacks which from time to time arise here, as they do elsewhere in life. At each instance of feeling our hackles go up, we have a choice as to how to proceed. How do we respond when what may be a pet, long-held belief (as I believe Del has mentioned), is criticized? What is, to me, important, is the ability to share with each other in an atmosphere which encourages tolerance and understanding. No one of us can begin to have all the answers. Sometimes the worst offenders of "non-think" are those of us who have been around for a long time. I include myself in suggesting that we, as a group, find it all too easy to dismiss (with varying degrees of condescension) the earnest inquiries of others. In the process we only limit our own growth. Further, if we are each internally brutally honest with ourselves, we'll recognize/remember those pianos of our "own" we'd love to have back, if only to cut up and burn in the fireplace - hopefully taking our embarassment and shame with them as a part of the ritual. Mine include a Kranich & Bach, a Chickering, and, yes, a couple of Steinways. Well, maybe there were a few others, besides. All of this is part of personal and professional growth. We have today tools which allow us to learn from each other in ways that were only dreams only 20 years ago. Will we use them wisely? Whatever the problem, the answer is love. Best to all. Horace Horace Greeley Systems Analyst/Engineer Controller's Office Stanford University email: hgreeley@leland.stanford.edu voice mail: 650.725.9062 fax: 650.725.8014
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